searching for what?

people are used to tell me: oh why dont you trust people? you have some trusting problems...and I am used to answer: yes I dont trust people and I am glad that I dont. The last time I met a girl which really gave me hard time about it. She was saying that she was a person who likes to take care of other people..and was asking me how am I doing and how do I feel, am I ok...things like that. It was extremely annoying. What a waste of time...How a person define herself as a "person who likes to take care of other people"?!. Dont you have other things to do rather than this? Most importantly, do you really have a "golden" heart or are you just curious about other peoples lives and problems to forget yours? Please dont tell me that I have to trust you. What do I know about you? You dont have time to talk about yourself cause you are so commited to listen. I am really scared of that kind of people. You never know what they are really thinking cause they just want to listen to you...I dont know, its scary to me anyway...